HOW TO BREAK THE PROBLEM IN LIFE
How to Solve a Problem “The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny.” “Problems are to the mind what exercise is to the muscles, they toughen and make strong.” “Every problem has a gift for you in its hands.” 1. First, ask yourself: is there really a problem here? Often we create problems in our own heads – as I mentioned a bit about a few days ago in – that aren’t really out there in reality. So relax a bit. And think about if this is really a big problem. Is it something that will matter in 5 years? Or even in 5 weeks? Life becomes so less stressful when you stop making mountain out of molehills (or just out of thin air). 2. Accept it. When you accept that the problem already exists and stop resisting then you also stop putting more energy into the problem and “feeding it”. N...