STRUGGLE IN LIFE
There are so many struggles in human life. I'm just mentioning a common one which most of us have.
Being a middle class youngster.
Yeah.. It's one of the biggest struggle in life.
Unworthy educational system, Unemployment,Family debts, A broken heart and the list goes on for a middle class youngster.
We are just always portrayed as an unresponsible generation. Yeah we may act as one sometime. But deep in the heart of every youngster you see on road, roaming around, searching for a job has a primary aim in his life, To make his/her parents Happy and proud.
Still you don't get the struggle ? Just see how much time, pressure and sacrifice a middle class guy/girl has to put in buying their dream Two wheelers, which has become a basic need in these times.
Dear elders Don't compare your years with ours and Dear Youngsters never stop running behind your dreams.
Cheers.
Consider this as an addition to all good answers to this everlasting question.
There is a somewhat unsettling thing I have learned about in my life and spiritual practice, and I give credit for that to the books “The Power of Now” and “Transurfing.”
Although I knew that ultimate responsibility for all aspects of my life lied within myself, I doubted for a long time that there were strange forces inside or outside of me that perpetually and tenaciously hindered my spiritual growth.
In your life, have you ever noticed that right after you achieved something good, or had finally raised yourself to a higher level, you then had some setback come smashing down, or an unexpected reaction force that struck back? What is that? Why are there such disappointments in our life?
Eckhart Tolle frequently refers in his books to a “pain-body” inside every human being. The pain-body is a conglomerate of negative energy within us which is half-conscious, or sometimes a self-conscious entity. Numerous spiritual practitioners around the world believe that this disturbing concept actually has a very firm foundation in real life.
As all physical objects with a certain mass mutually attract with gravitational force, there is also a strange kind of attracting force among energies that are similar in their nature. As positive energies or human experiences attract each other and tend to attract more and more like experiences, so the negative energies and experiences tend to coalesce and unite into an ever bigger energetic entity. There is another name of these energetic entities: the morphic fields.
These fields develop not only in individual human or other living beings, but also on a collective level.
As is the case with living organisms, morphic fields have a strong tendency to survive and grow. What’s more important, they “feed” themselves with the like energies. So, negative morphic fields will try to survive and grow by feeding with negative energies, which are usually produced in fights, battles, wars, accidents, diseases, etc.
Additionally, which could sometimes pose a real problem to us, these entities have a vague consciousness. After eons of development and accumulation of like energy, some of these entities seem to have clearly defined themselves as completely self-conscious beings.
There are countless types of morphic fields. For example, there are morphic fields of every family, group of people, sport clubs, organizations, companies, countries, nations, state administration, schools, particular religions, specific human behaviors, emotions of all kinds, and so forth.
Equipped with some sort of consciousness and mind, negative morphic fields will always try to induce destructive thoughts or emotions in individual people or harmful events on a collective level, in order to feed themselves with energies produced in such states or events.
Of course, positive morphic fields will always try to bring about some pleasant state or circumstance that will be beneficial to us and them as well. Many prayers of religious people are actually feeding these positive entities formed around particular positive ideas, angels or passed individuals considered as saints. In many cases, these benevolent energetic beings, as conscious entities, respond positively to the believers with fulfilling their prayers and even miraculous events.
The sad thing is that we don’t see all these beings. We are rarely aware of them. However, in many mythologies and religious traditions, the morphic fields of both kinds are pictured as angels or demons.
In his book “Transurfing,” the Russian author Vadim Zeland describes many aspects of human spiritual growth, and among other things, he explains his concept of “pendulums.” He elaborates much more extensively on the subject of these negative morphic fields than Tolle. While the German author focuses mostly on individual pain-bodies, Zeland emphasizes the negative collective morphic fields, which he labels as pendulums.
He calls them pendulums due to their tendency to swing relentlessly, like the pendulum on a clock. If we want to stop its movement, it’s not so easy. If we hit it at the wrong time, that will only amplify its swinging. Thus if we fight against these collective (or individual) negative entities, we will probably only strengthen them. If we act positively toward them, we will also strengthen them.
One of the ways to stop the pendulum’s swinging is to raise our awareness, ignore its movement and leave it to die off. In other words, when its attack strikes, you have to become present as much as possible. If you are fully aware in such a situation, the proper action (or non-action) will arise from you. Of course, becoming present in these circumstances is quite difficult, especially if something hits us straight on our head every time. It’s hard to stay present and consciously ignore the negativity around us… but it is possible.
In the “Power of Now,” Tolle gives us some very useful advice related to the very moment when the “pain body” attacks: “If you are able to stay alert and present at that time and watch whatever you feel within, rather than be taken over by it, it affords an opportunity for the most powerful spiritual practice, and a rapid transmutation of all past pain becomes possible.”
He adds another concrete instruction: “Focus attention on the feeling inside you. Know that it is the pain-body. Accept that it is there. Don't think about it—don't let the feeling turn into thinking. Don't judge or analyze. Don't make an identity for yourself out of it. Stay present, and continue to be the observer of what is happening inside you. Become aware not only of the emotional pain but also of "the one who observes," the silent watcher. This is the power of the Now, the power of your own conscious presence. Then see what happens.”
Another way is to “hit” the pendulum just at the right moment, when it is approaching us, with a mild and properly directed force. Translated into real life, we should apply some of spiritual or psychological techniques on them, but we must do it cleverly and carefully. I recommend here techniques of the innovative Reintegration System (website: www.re-integration.com), which provides us with an arsenal of effective tools for that: for negative states of mind that have just started developing, the best technique could be the “Freshness and Acceptance”; we could also use the “Dissolving the Temporary I Plus” or the “Gentle Touch of Presence.” For already developed negative circumstances and states of mind, we could apply either the “Inner Triangle,” “Single Chain” or “Double Chain Technique.”
Along with this kind of work, we have to have a proper general attitude, firmly rooted in moral behavior. Otherwise, our misbehaving may attract a related pendulum, and will start falling into the spiral caused by its gravitation.
Additionally, when you feel the pendulum approaching, when you notice that the situation is getting worse, try to totally and unexpectedly break the string of events. It’s similar to calming a child: when it gets angry and starts screaming often without any apparent reason, you could calm it down by suddenly and quickly pointing to something in the room totally unrelated to the child’s attention. Being unexpectedly interrupted in its tirade, in awe, the child rapidly calms down.
The same approach works with pendulums: in negative circumstances, full of rising rage, fights or disputes, try to break the morphic field’s momentum by abruptly and suddenly turning the attention of all involved onto an entirely different subject. It could be a ridiculously normal thing, some good joke, pointing to a scene or person on TV, or maybe something else. It depends on your creativity. This will stop the pendulum’s swing and the atmosphere will most probably calm down immediately. You can even feel a sort of soothing energy flooding onto you and your group. That energy was initially “intended” by the pendulum to be put into the fight. However, in this way you will win the battle, but not the “war” yet.
We should definitely be persevering in this work. There will be many setbacks; pendulums are very persistent, sometimes even crafty.
Please keep in mind that we live in a holographic universe. The negative elements of our personality are kind of pendulums’ “agents” inside us. Pendulums mirror our internal challenges. When we succeed in reintegrating our negative personal parts, we actually leave the pendulums without their roots in our being. They can’t influence us anymore, since they are just outer projections of our inner negative elements. Of course, this would account for our own individual reality, not for that of others. Those same pendulums will continue to lurk and feed from other people that haven’t solved their own internal problems.
If you miss the right moment to break the pendulum’s attack at the beginning, you may face a challenge, but don’t give up! When you think you are in its deepest darkness, without any exit, in the middle of a crisis—you have already fed the pendulum enough, and it will release you soon. When that deliverance comes, immediately take action. Use that attack to reveal a hidden cue: the cause. Begin preparations for the next attack. Try to dive into your subconscious; ask yourself: “What caused this attack (problem)?” Try to find a suppressed trait, emotion or other element of personality that caused the issue. That personality element is the pendulum’s “agent” or root within you.
Sooner or later, you must find that cause. It could have multiple sources. When you find the root of the problem, apply some of the main Reintegration techniques and reintegrate it forever. You will finally free yourself from that problem and its related pendulum.
I will share my personal article of struggles in life:
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If you think you’re wandering alone trying to raise your voice so everybody can hear you roaring, you’re damn wrong. In fact, you are surrounded with people who fight bloody combats in their minds between success and failure.
Whoever told you that life and success comes easy is either pleasing you, or talk nonsense. Life is a balance of good and bad times along with picking out the best lessons out of both experiences. The theory of yin yang shows life as one simple equation.
However, our main goal is to see ourselves happy being worth in a community. Unconsciously we want to be appreciated for what we do. It’s best to find your talent and spread it with the world. However easy it may sound, the previous sentence determines a life span of your whole life!
In the next top 10 signs that you’re succeeding in life you will surely find at least couple of emotions with whom you fight harsh battle.
1. You are determined more than ever.
Determination is the first thing you do conscious that will take you directly to your wishes. Determination means that you already have a clear goal and willing to sacrifice everything to grab that goal with both hands.
Emotions will rush over you to go back to the old habits. They will try to tuck in every negative thought to cut you off from your vision. Determination will determine (as the word says itself) that you will firmly stick to your future plan no matter the cost of the bill you have to pay.
If you ever feel this way, you are doing it right. Don’t flow away to your doubts for short-term satisfactions. GO FOR THE LONG RUN.
2. You feel like breaking down.
At the exact moment when you feel like the world falls down on you is the moment you have to decide two things: go down with it, or elevate stronger than ever.
If you read books about self-determination, watch seminars and listen to audio books you will notice that all the knowledge is used to encourage us through harsh times – the ones where the world falls down on us. They remind us to see beauty behind the thorns on the way.
Life is one big test where we have to see through all perspectives. The price we have to pay not to blur our dreams when encountering the weight of the world on our shoulders.
Know that giving up is going to take everything you wanted away (depending on your struggle.) So combine your energy and explode it out to raise yourself.
3. You firmly want to give up.
Following the sign of the hard struggle when you feel like breaking down, the mental state to give up will invade your mind. That’s really a sign that you are doing the right thing. I would state it as finding comfort in the discomfort.
Have in mind that you are encountering thousands of negative energies, angry drivers, wireless signals, toxic air, and what so not.
Rely on the side that you’ve been brave enough to get to this exact point after all the problems and circumstances, so don’t give up when you’re one step ahead of seeing the sun!
4. You choose to avoid night-out over work.
Everyone needs to hang out from time to time. We exchange thoughts, enjoy the time with our biddies, and have a fun time. But sometimes night-out needs to be avoided if we have crucial work to finish that might take us closer to the vision. And don’t get me wrong. I am no workaholic too.
We need to see from the perspective that we earn night-outs without having a hesitation of unfinished business at home (or work.) When we have all things done for that particular time, we can enjoy as much as we can, but not before that.
Free time needs to be earned thought previous successful days of work. Believe me; the best memories are made when you have nothing left behind to occupy your mind.
5. You are less with wrong people.
First, I am no introvert, but quite the opposite. When I was having a tough, lonely period in my life I acknowledged the brightest lessons.
In those times you reveal your true friends and people who care about you the most.
While being lonely may seem like a dark period and something might be wrong with us, that period of our life is the enlightening. You are left alone with your experience to form your future.
Also, do not avoid people to reveal yourself, but when it comes to your future plans, take criticism seriously, but not personally. That’s what most people do. They criticize ideas and visions. You mustn’t let that touch yours.
6. You are occupied with your success.
I think when being asked for occupation, we should answer with “success.” Emotions play with our mind when we determine to succeed in life. As I previously mentioned, we all have bad habits that have to be removed. That’s not easy at all.
Success should make us happy. It shouldn’t mean that “success” is endless money and one mile houses. It means finishing consecutive small tasks every day. The big picture will come at the right time. Like a painter crafts his masterpiece. Piece by piece, Leonardo da Vinci made Mona Lisa.
If you are occupied with executing small tasks every day, you are walking the right, unique, authentic way of yours.
7. You exchange life for something only you see.
First off, you sacrifice life with everything you do daily. You literally give up (something important and most valued) for the sake of your considerations. You exchange life for the picture in your head of rightfulness.
You see, when we imagine things EVERY DAY, we attract things we imagine. So when it comes to sacrifice we better do it for our perfect picture in our heads.
And no, you are giving up life for nothing. You switch every second and hand out struggle to your vision. The most interesting, frightening and motivational part is that you don’t know whether you will make it. But as we know, it’s all about perspective.
8. You know your goal as soon as you wake up.
Waking up may be the hardest part of the day for some people, but not for those who have clear concise vision (of at least) how they should spend their day to be closer to a better tomorrow.
Every one of us can easily create positive and creative way of thinking in a short period of time. If that time is in the morning, there’s a probability that the whole day will be spend positively.
Since the body falls asleep, “the machine” stops and rests until the morning. After that, the machine needs to be fed with an instant motivation to drive us around daily problems and obstacles on the road.
Imagine life differently. Find more comparisons, maybe funnier ones. You mustn’t look things as real as they are. The mind can expand as long as you’re willing to. Feed your mind with beauty in the morning.
9. You are struggling like every success.
When you walk the hard road, know that millions of people went through it. They even walked uglier roads to grasp success.
As billions of people passed the car tests and driving lessons, success means life is putting you to a test to see if you’re hard enough to endure it.
My thoughts were that you are not alone. If you were in somebody else’s shoes, you will see that your road is “piece of cake” according to theirs.
Know that people struggle through life to get things worth having.
“Nothing worth having comes easy.”
10. You are not alone.
Whoever reads this, you are not alone. You interact with the world. You attract the things you imagine. You are feeling exactly as you are now because of circumstances you made or attracted. Sometimes (even though very rarely) we are victim of circumstance, but you have everything you need to change that.
It’s never too late to change your community, your life, your world. If you think you’re on the right foot, the world will get in accordance with it. If you want to change it’s never too late, either at 18 or 98.
If you still think you’re not succeeding in life, one of the wealthiest people on earth succeeded when they taught they are lost in life.
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If you think you’re wandering alone trying to raise your voice so everybody can hear you roaring, you’re damn wrong. In fact, you are surrounded with people who fight bloody combats in their minds between success and failure.
Whoever told you that life and success comes easy is either pleasing you, or talk nonsense. Life is a balance of good and bad times along with picking out the best lessons out of both experiences. The theory of yin yang shows life as one simple equation.
However, our main goal is to see ourselves happy being worth in a community. Unconsciously we want to be appreciated for what we do. It’s best to find your talent and spread it with the world. However easy it may sound, the previous sentence determines a life span of your whole life!
In the next top 10 signs that you’re succeeding in life you will surely find at least couple of emotions with whom you fight harsh battle.
1. You are determined more than ever.
Determination is the first thing you do conscious that will take you directly to your wishes. Determination means that you already have a clear goal and willing to sacrifice everything to grab that goal with both hands.
Emotions will rush over you to go back to the old habits. They will try to tuck in every negative thought to cut you off from your vision. Determination will determine (as the word says itself) that you will firmly stick to your future plan no matter the cost of the bill you have to pay.
If you ever feel this way, you are doing it right. Don’t flow away to your doubts for short-term satisfactions. GO FOR THE LONG RUN.
2. You feel like breaking down.
At the exact moment when you feel like the world falls down on you is the moment you have to decide two things: go down with it, or elevate stronger than ever.
If you read books about self-determination, watch seminars and listen to audio books you will notice that all the knowledge is used to encourage us through harsh times – the ones where the world falls down on us. They remind us to see beauty behind the thorns on the way.
Life is one big test where we have to see through all perspectives. The price we have to pay not to blur our dreams when encountering the weight of the world on our shoulders.
Know that giving up is going to take everything you wanted away (depending on your struggle.) So combine your energy and explode it out to raise yourself.
3. You firmly want to give up.
Following the sign of the hard struggle when you feel like breaking down, the mental state to give up will invade your mind. That’s really a sign that you are doing the right thing. I would state it as finding comfort in the discomfort.
Have in mind that you are encountering thousands of negative energies, angry drivers, wireless signals, toxic air, and what so not.
Rely on the side that you’ve been brave enough to get to this exact point after all the problems and circumstances, so don’t give up when you’re one step ahead of seeing the sun!
4. You choose to avoid night-out over work.
Everyone needs to hang out from time to time. We exchange thoughts, enjoy the time with our biddies, and have a fun time. But sometimes night-out needs to be avoided if we have crucial work to finish that might take us closer to the vision. And don’t get me wrong. I am no workaholic too.
We need to see from the perspective that we earn night-outs without having a hesitation of unfinished business at home (or work.) When we have all things done for that particular time, we can enjoy as much as we can, but not before that.
Free time needs to be earned thought previous successful days of work. Believe me; the best memories are made when you have nothing left behind to occupy your mind.
5. You are less with wrong people.
First, I am no introvert, but quite the opposite. When I was having a tough, lonely period in my life I acknowledged the brightest lessons.
In those times you reveal your true friends and people who care about you the most.
While being lonely may seem like a dark period and something might be wrong with us, that period of our life is the enlightening. You are left alone with your experience to form your future.
Also, do not avoid people to reveal yourself, but when it comes to your future plans, take criticism seriously, but not personally. That’s what most people do. They criticize ideas and visions. You mustn’t let that touch yours.
6. You are occupied with your success.
I think when being asked for occupation, we should answer with “success.” Emotions play with our mind when we determine to succeed in life. As I previously mentioned, we all have bad habits that have to be removed. That’s not easy at all.
Success should make us happy. It shouldn’t mean that “success” is endless money and one mile houses. It means finishing consecutive small tasks every day. The big picture will come at the right time. Like a painter crafts his masterpiece. Piece by piece, Leonardo da Vinci made Mona Lisa.
If you are occupied with executing small tasks every day, you are walking the right, unique, authentic way of yours.
7. You exchange life for something only you see.
First off, you sacrifice life with everything you do daily. You literally give up (something important and most valued) for the sake of your considerations. You exchange life for the picture in your head of rightfulness.
You see, when we imagine things EVERY DAY, we attract things we imagine. So when it comes to sacrifice we better do it for our perfect picture in our heads.
And no, you are giving up life for nothing. You switch every second and hand out struggle to your vision. The most interesting, frightening and motivational part is that you don’t know whether you will make it. But as we know, it’s all about perspective.
8. You know your goal as soon as you wake up.
Waking up may be the hardest part of the day for some people, but not for those who have clear concise vision (of at least) how they should spend their day to be closer to a better tomorrow.
Every one of us can easily create positive and creative way of thinking in a short period of time. If that time is in the morning, there’s a probability that the whole day will be spend positively.
Since the body falls asleep, “the machine” stops and rests until the morning. After that, the machine needs to be fed with an instant motivation to drive us around daily problems and obstacles on the road.
Imagine life differently. Find more comparisons, maybe funnier ones. You mustn’t look things as real as they are. The mind can expand as long as you’re willing to. Feed your mind with beauty in the morning.
9. You are struggling like every success.
When you walk the hard road, know that millions of people went through it. They even walked uglier roads to grasp success.
As billions of people passed the car tests and driving lessons, success means life is putting you to a test to see if you’re hard enough to endure it.
My thoughts were that you are not alone. If you were in somebody else’s shoes, you will see that your road is “piece of cake” according to theirs.
Know that people struggle through life to get things worth having.
“Nothing worth having comes easy.”
10. You are not alone.
Whoever reads this, you are not alone. You interact with the world. You attract the things you imagine. You are feeling exactly as you are now because of circumstances you made or attracted. Sometimes (even though very rarely) we are victim of circumstance, but you have everything you need to change that.
It’s never too late to change your community, your life, your world. If you think you’re on the right foot, the world will get in accordance with it. If you want to change it’s never too late, either at 18 or 98.
If you still think you’re not succeeding in life, one of the wealthiest people on earth succeeded when they taught they are lost in life.
Regards_
VISHVA SATYAM
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